Industry.co.id - Jakarta - Okkamoto, a brand of Japanese condom that many adults have trusted, presents the Spill-Safe program.
This intimate gathering activity was designed to encourage brave couples to establish more honest, safe, and open communication about healthy and responsible intimate relationships.
This initiative is present in line with the findings of The Gottman Institute which reveal that about 73 percent of couples never discuss sexual needs, fantasy, or their profound limits.
The data shows that even though communication is the essential foundation of relationships, the topic of intimacy is still a difficult thing to talk about. Open Comms So Quality Relationship Key
Senior Chief Marketer Okamoto Industries (HK) Ltd., Holly Kwan, says that Spill the (Safe) Tea is part of a long-term commitment company in creating a more open discussion room regarding relations and sexual health.
"Through the Spill (Safe) Tea, we want to encourage brave couples to talk about things that are often considered awkward, from emotional needs, comfort, to boundaries in relationships. Because in the end, quality relationships are born out of mutual understanding, not just assumptions," Holly Kwan-speak.
This program is a continuation of the spirit of Playspace, the interactive space that Okamoto previously presented to open up conversations about sexual health and relationships. This time, Spill the (Safe) Tea comes with a more personal and intimate concept through collaboration with the DearMoms and IVG communities.
15 adult couples were involved in activities designed to help them understand the importance of comfort, openness, and awareness of each other's needs and preferences.
Carrying the concept of afternoon tea, the event was opened with a light reflection session that invited participants to look back at their relationship dynamics. The warm and relaxed atmosphere becomes a means to start conversations that are often difficult to do in everyday life.
Participants then follow various interactive activities, from couple games to discussion sessions with sex educators. In these activities, couples are invited to share experiences, understand the perspective of couples, to explore each other's needs and comfort.
Not only that, this session also became an education room to discuss many of the more advanced myths about the use of condoms and sexual health. The whole discussion takes place in a safe, comfortable and judgment-free atmosphere so that participants can speak more openly.
Psychologists and Sex Educator, Febrizky Yahya, explained that actually many couples have a desire to discuss important issues in relationships, including about intimacy and emotional need. However, awkwardness and worries are often a barrier.
"Many times the biggest challenge in relationships is not dissent, but ignorance to express what is truly felt and needed. Instead of asking direct questions, many couples choose to assume. As a result, there was a misunderstanding that could disrupt the quality of the relationship," definitely Febrizky.
According to him, open communication can help couples build a sense of security, both physically and emotionally. In addition, openness is also the essential foundation for creating a stronger closeness and a healthier relationship.
"Spill the (Safe) Tea can be a space that helps couples build up courage and comfort to talk about things that may be difficult in their relationships, so that couples can know and appreciate each other's needs better," she added.
Through this program, Okkamoto insists that quality relationships not only depend on the selection of proper protection tools, but also on the ability of couples to build healthy communication, understanding, and trust.
The commitment is also made possible through the innovation of products that prefer comfort and protection, one of which is through the products 0.03 Real Fit. This 0.03 series is designed with a very thin and more fit design without tips, and it provides a more natural sensation, and still provides a sense of security for users.
Holly Kwan insists that protection in relationships not only deals with physical aspects, but also includes the comfort and safety both couples feel.
"We hope the Spill (Safe) Tea can inspire more adult couples to dare start a meaningful conversation. Because often, a small step to speak honestly can be the beginning of a stronger and trusting relationship," shut down Holly Kwan.
